"A Letter To My Ex"
Dear Ex,
I can bet you thought this letter would be a bitter one to explain how much I love you & can't believe you would hurt me, ...oh & how much I still love you & want us to work out .. but that's not me. To be honest, I'm writing this letter because I figured, what better way to close this chapter of my life & truly move forward. I cant blame you for my heartbreak. You're only human & plus I saw the red flags & still decided to stay. All is forgiven. The best gift I can give myself is to FORGIVE YOU for what you did wrong & in hopes that you forgave me for my mistakes. I have no bitterness towards you -- you did me a huge favor by leaving, my relationship with Christ wouldn't be what it is today. I'm praying that the Lord saves you & truly do a work in you .. I see why we didn't work because we were unequally yoked. The one that's for you was not me no matter how much "we" tried. I can't lie, we had some fun times together & great memories .. but it just wasn't meant to be. God knows BEST!
I'm praying whoever you choose to marry, that she honors & appreciate you for who you are. If I could thank you, it would be for letting me go so that I may find the real meaning for my being & I'm praying you've discovered the same for yourself. From you, I've learned a few great qualities to expect in a guy -- I can't settle for less because I NOW know my worth. For so many years I was holding a grudge towards you but I came to the realization that holding onto bitterness & resentment towards you will hold me back from what God longs to do in me. I finally decided to let go. My prayer is that in you reading this that you sense a tug in your spirit & experience the presence of the same love that led me to write this letter to you. I pray that you find true love in Christ & that you marry the woman of your dreams .. that's my hope for you, after all, you deserve it! At one point, I feared losing you because I thought you were all I needed .. now I see that all that I needed couldn't be found in you. My JOY comes knowing that the God I serve loves you more than I could ever love you .. be eternally blessed, you and your future family. May God bless you as much as He's blessed me & even greater. No hard feelings remain. No love lost.
I'm praying whoever you choose to marry, that she honors & appreciate you for who you are. If I could thank you, it would be for letting me go so that I may find the real meaning for my being & I'm praying you've discovered the same for yourself. From you, I've learned a few great qualities to expect in a guy -- I can't settle for less because I NOW know my worth. For so many years I was holding a grudge towards you but I came to the realization that holding onto bitterness & resentment towards you will hold me back from what God longs to do in me. I finally decided to let go. My prayer is that in you reading this that you sense a tug in your spirit & experience the presence of the same love that led me to write this letter to you. I pray that you find true love in Christ & that you marry the woman of your dreams .. that's my hope for you, after all, you deserve it! At one point, I feared losing you because I thought you were all I needed .. now I see that all that I needed couldn't be found in you. My JOY comes knowing that the God I serve loves you more than I could ever love you .. be eternally blessed, you and your future family. May God bless you as much as He's blessed me & even greater. No hard feelings remain. No love lost.
With Sincere Regards,
Vontrail
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