"You've met MR. RIGHT, don't go messing it up!"

For the women who have met Mr. Right. Don't let your crazy talk about yo ex did this & that or your insecurities (self-esteem issues) mess it up! -- ask God to help you with getting over your past & your imperfections. You can't keep bringing up your past in this new guy's face. I mean really... How much do you think he can take of that? Every man needs respect. In this blog, I'll be telling you the 10 ways on just how to present yourself for your Mr. Right! It's just a few things us women don't think about until after-the-fact.

***Ladies, when a good man comes into your life -- I mean, a man after God's own heart, don't go mess it up with your crazy talk & insecurities. Be patient with him ... most likely he's not going no where. You don't have to act a certain way for him to stay. IF he really "loves" YOU - for you, He isn't going anywhere.*** 

1. Ladies, we must have our thinking re-programmed. It's stopping us from being the women our someday husbands need us to be. Strong, sweet, quiet-spirited & self-sacrificing. 1Peter3:4-6, Prov31:10-31 -- How can we be that if our own mess keeps creeping up? Put that to rest & never wake it again.
2. Just be YOU! On the 1st date, the 2nd date.. even after marriage -- be the woman God created you to be. You can't be a better lady than who YOU are! God didn't make any mistakes when He made you. That guy will accept your humility & genuine self. Yes, there's some things "about" you that must change, but you can't change who YOU are! Be the BEST you :)
3. Don't dress skanky thinking that's the way you should in order to keep his eyes on you. If dressing the way you are suppose to is going to send him in another woman's direction -- then quite frankly, HE ISN'T the right guy for you. Your future husband will honor God & your purity.
4. Be willing to listen to him .. men rarely speak, so be an open vessel to his plans, goals & vision for his life -- & he "better" have a VISION! If he hardly EVER mention God in his plans ...keep it moving honey, he's not what you need .. he wouldn't be able to provide & take care of you when times gets tough.
5. Be a woman in your own rights. What do I mean by this? Show him that you are responsible, if you have a job, bank account (checking & savings), and your own place/car.. it's okay to share that with him.. but protect it. Don't let him use you for what you have -- we don't need that.
6. Another thing, don' make the mistake of making him think that you don't need him & that you're an independent woman. NO, that's not scripture. God didn't send him in your life just to send him right back out. He's not like the rest of them jokers, he's your prince sent by the King of kings - Jesus! Treat him just like that without compromising your integrity & virtue.
7. Keep your girlfriends & family out of yall business. Especially if yall have an argument or disagreement among one another. Because when you do they know of it, already passed judgments & the next day yall are doing fine, and they thinking & bringing up yall breakouts & all.  But pray about it .. God can help. Some things are just best keep between yall (UNLESS he's abusing you or calling you bad names, then you leave him alone & tell them about it).
8. Make him "a" priority only after your relationship with God 1st. Noticed I said "a" priority & not "the" priority - that's God's place! Some guys can feel pushed over or out of the way with your busy schedule with family, friends & work. Spend quality time building up you guys fun times together. Go to the beach together & plan  picnic outings -- with just the two of you. Your future marriage will be what you make it. Create beautiful memories together -- but NO sex or kissing. Save all that good stuff for the wedding night!
9. The reason I say no kissing along with no sex.. is because kissing creates bonds that shouldn't be until marriage. & it pleases God! See why in this post -- "Why wait to kiss at the alter" 
10. Finally ladies, make sure you guys both have your goals, plans, & VISIONS mapped out for the future & discuss it on the regular. Pray for him & keep him before the Lord. Keep him encouraged & show him that YOU are the woman he dreamed of. God will strengthen him & keep him focused. After all, if he's the "right guy" you'll just be getting in some practice with being a good wife to him someday!

I pray this helps you to know what to do & what God expects of you when he sends Mr. Right in your life. Know that you don't have to work up keeping this guy around & don't go messing up a GOOD thing! God sent him for you & I'm sure you want to make it to the altar with him. Be the princess Christ paid the price for & the woman of your husband's dreams by being a wonderful woman after God's own heart. You were created to be your husband's helper, supporting him & his goals & destiny in God -- make sure you're the woman doing just that. There are enough divorces as it is, we need more good, virtuous wives! 

Thanks for reading.

God is in love with you!

..Love always Vontrail